Spirit of impotence
Mental factors can cause impotence has already been confirmed by sexologists, the incidence of about half of all patients with impotence, but many of impotence and spouse, family is very difficult to understand this phenomenon. Loving father dies, son in impotence, failed to be promoted in impotence, life suddenly extremely difficult in impotence, early father Fanxin poor management chores can produce impotence, and social life in major incidents such as earthquakes, typhoons, unrest, war …… resulting from impotence, these things may seem irrelevant and penile erection, it is indeed closely related to the occurrence of impotence.
Human body is a complex and delicate as a whole, between the various organs are closely intrinsically linked. Life of the pressure on the mental and physical consequences. Mental reaction is melancholy, deep, anger, despair, anxiety and tension. The body of the reaction can be loss of appetite, indigestion, insomnia, even with psychosomatic diseases, such as ulcer disease, hypertension, colitis, cancer, pancreatitis, diabetes, asthma, eczema and rheumatoid arthritis, and so on. A real-life example: A 50-year-old grass-roots cadres persecution workers using power, which 19-year-old young woman in an impasse, and to defy the law had been executed. In the bloody facts and under the strong pressure of public opinion, who died a year troubles pancreatitis.
In the whole structure of the body, sexual function is not necessary to maintain the existence of life. Therefore, when a person in the mental and physical tension under pressure, let sexual function in the system other vital organs, such as the heart, lung, liver and kidney.
Spirit of the relationship between age and impotence
Impotence can occur in any age group of people. However, in the age of each of the different stages of their characteristics, as impotence and life experiences, sexual experience, a sound personality, emotional stability and physical function related to such factors as the state. Generally below the age of 40 divided into group 1, 40-60-year-old group is divided into l, over the age of 60 divided into Group 1.
After the mature male, any age group may illness, every age group is more to see their causes. For example, in the first sexual experience from the 40-year-old to this group of people, because of excessive masturbation during adolescence, honeymoon anxiety, excessive drinking more on the leading causes of impotence, but remember, all the characteristics of the age group is not static, single persons 50-year-old or 60-year-old newlywed married honeymoon will encounter a series of problems such as anxiety.
Age group for quickly and accurately identify causes of impotence,-targeted and effective treatment is also useful. For people under 40 years of age, because a cause of the accident is not satisfied with life, and therefore a result of the fear, anxiety is more likely to see, the sooner treatment resume normal function sooner, love, marital status, family harmony is the damage caused by the smaller.
Impotence of the spirit of young people (less than 40 years of age)
Yang seizure of the spirit of young people is often a sudden, special psychological or physiological factors. This happened caused anxiety and fear of the vicious circle.
Young people often lack of experience, in the absence of scientific knowledge could easily give rise to the spirit of burden or mental illness. Most men can be downplayed or ignored the occasional one or two erectile dysfunction, and these people would not develop into impotence. Others, the individual has always been small changes in the body more sensitive, more concerned about the youth of their capabilities are suspected characteristics, the spirit is often Yang seizure of the high-risk individuals.
Childhood environment shadow g also cause people to the formation of the tragedy, such as sexual impotence and worries personality. For example, the mother autocratic, authoritarian father, the family extremely harmonious, and devout religious believers, the juvenile was raped, or have homosexual experiences, and so on. And the failure of the first attempt to premature ejaculation can also cause impotence. In consultation found that a
At the first married man is not satisfied with the sexual activity or unsuccessful. A 3-year-old boy’s father said to me: “We love for the first time are dissatisfied with it, the wife did not euphoric, vaginal dryness, and soon ended. About a year after we adapted to each other, each time lasting basis in the situation between 10-30 minutes. “Therefore, the failure of the first attempt of experience Although many people remember, but quickly adapted to the general. Only a handful of people can initially result of the failure of a vicious cycle, not even married for years to overcome erectile dysfunction, and psychological factors such date is not clear. A 35-year-old fitter said: marriage, housing shortage, so a big house
First, cut off, the old mother slept outside, because the noise poor, the wedding very nervous the first night, the fear of voices heard so that the mother, from each sex life are hasty, premature ejaculation; Later, at a two-bedroom buildings, But the early fall has been no illnesses good. An architectural engineer, said: “initial love for his wife Jian Tong, my heart
Very nervous, premature ejaculation occurred, but after her daughter was born premature ejaculation has not been corrected, now can not satisfy the requirements of his wife, the two sides are suffering. “A management in the College of Education, a lecturer said.” Cultural Revolution I late units: two for 26-year-old can get married. I and his girlfriend (now wife) love in my home, after four years in premarital sex, every time the letter was Peter Catholic mothermind very nervous, so several seconds after sexual intercourse ejaculation, and the continuation of this situation married, but after treatment be corrected. ”
The spirit of the middle-aged impotence
The past, the middle-aged, the elderly, age-very inconsistent. To strengthen scientific, and the book by internationally recognized standards that middle-aged 40-60 years old, the elderly> 60-year-old division.
In China, men to 40 years old, The vast majority of the middle-aged man with the experience and of adaptability. In the spirit of the middle-aged and young people impotence compared with a slow, unwittingly, cause unknown. But some of the factors affecting the middle-aged young people also play a role, such as alcoholism.
- Two reasons for the middle-aged patients with seizure is a common, and not a marriage, an age change.
Marriage does not mean love in the water, does not mean that a harmonious family happiness. For a variety of complex reasons, middle-aged family can be divided into several. Happy families. Love increased with the age and the birth of a child and to deepen and enrich. Take help live, lack of a common language and exchanges, with children or other reasons too, the lack of passion on both sides, and is a reluctant and customary obligations only. Marital discord and conflict open, relations have deteriorated, on the verge of collapse, both sides to avoid any sexual exchanges.
Their spiritual and sexual impotence (after the age of 60)
After the 60-year-old Yang seizure of the people, the vast majority is organic, that is caused by the disease, but there are still cases of impotence. According to modern scientific point of view, the elderly does not mean that the loss of erectile function, in the capacity still exists over the age of 60,70,80. Love and the elderly can be both sexual life
Also should be able to understand, regardless of social and family should be helped.
In today’s society, between adult couples to hug foreplay, kissing, for love is accepted, but if this is taking place at the age of 60 or older couples, there will be some people can not bear the sight of. Forms of artistic expression fully propaganda young people, middle-aged loved ones, when the elderly appear in literature, art,
Television them, the most common response is insensitive to silence Hong gait, sparse hair, incompetence has no charm. The fact is not so. People over 60 years old and did not previously manual, but the old age also means that more mature and full of a sense of responsibility, do not want isolation, the ability to establish more intimate sexual relations. Old, the disease will
Entangle, but not all the chronic diseases affect people’s sexuality; contrast, the relationship between intimate partner elderly, often foreplay and sexual activities of the elderly, whether it is physical or psychological, than a lonely, aging more slowly. Edwards called 1984 a Bulaicheer experts surveyed 4,246 older persons below the age of 80, the vast majority of the remains interested. China, a famous professor of obstetrics and gynecology: the elderly maintain their sex life is the life of a symbol of high quality, appropriate and reasonable physical and mental health of the elderly that are living. Patients with a variety of chronic diseases can also, under the guidance of professional doctors resume love lives.
Scientific development today, each of the spouses should know how to love: sexual interest and activity can be accompanied by life. The older people are still willing to exchange sexual feelings, that is to say, to give and receive love and foreplay. The elderly can rightfully express their love, desire, no need to feel ashamed.
The elderly variety of activities, hugging and foreplay, if they so wish, of course, can have sexual intercourse. Cultural Revolution in a dead artist wife, a university teacher lost sister; artists later after release from the wife’s sister to take care of his life, they became common in couples miss. The 62-year-old wife, 76-year-old husband. His wife said: “We not only is a living, we still have a sexual activity. His ability is not bad, but I do not want to, I think it is a matter of young people, we are too old.” Unscientific like this in the viewpoint in the elderly is not uncommon. There are many old men after remarriage, Objective To Huaganban infants. They tried to avoid intimate contact with the exchanges, because of fear of close contacts would lead to sexual intercourse, for fear that time, the woman found their capacity is not strong. A 68-year-old older single men said, “I find his wife three children, not successful, I think they would have sexual demands, and my limited capacity.” Actually, between the requirements of the elderly is natural, but not necessarily all vaginal intercourse, intelligence, touching and hugging in the majority of couples in the frail elderly is a good way exchanges.
A more common misconception is that the inevitable loss of old capacity (erectile capacity), so some of the elderly automatically cease to sexual activity. This is the spirit of the older part of the reasons for impotence. There is also a superstitious viewpoint, the number of male erectile is limited, all can no longer run out of the erection.
The existence of aging is a fact. 70-year-old and 30-year-old who can run as fast as 100 metres when. Old, and sexual stimulation reaction is slow down, the time spent on erectile also take longer, especially in the physical fatigue or depression, become more pronounced. Older men having sexual intercourse when the euphoric approach also extended, that is, when the 40-year-old in the vaginal pumping up to 10 minutes to climax, at the age of 60 may take 15 minutes才行. However, some people think that nothing bad to make up for the middle-aged and young, premature ejaculation flaws. Older persons in the activities of the phenomenon is no ejaculation can see, this should not be surprising, it is quite normal; Even so, even in the event of a no climax, but can enjoy both sides of the common joy, kinds of activities, or should be promoted.
A 70-year-old letter said: “We married 50 not living off of last year, I still light after the resumption of hemiplegia for love. Recently, I have no ejaculation but I still willing to enjoy with his wife of joy, hope that after treatment can hemiplegia before the resumption of capacity. “If the wife does not think that ejaculation is incompetent, not men, we can not meet the requirements of the other party to put pressure on the psychological burden will eventually cause erectile dysfunction.
Like oldest running the same speed more slowly. In elderly men after sexual intercourse when young exciting than weakened, penile erection should not be extended. In other words, the first erectile after a few hours or more may need longer to get new erection, but these were not considered to be impotence, but it is normal physiological changes.
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