Depression, how do I?
Not on its own can not afford to do anything, worse, that means nothing alive, the idea of a suicide. Most people in this state, the state can not aware of their normal, but they do not think they have the power to change all this. They often use a negative response, lying in bed said to myself: I am feeling better, and so, I will be able to……. However, when the mood improved? Does not appear in their own control.
Faced with this situation, people are often very distressed, anxious to shake off but I do not know where to start from the only loss to wait. In fact, the feelings, thinking and behaviour are interlinked, to a dynamic, three by key move. Three, the easiest to change the self-control behavior. Therefore, when the poor sentiment, the individual can take the initiative to change their behaviour and, indirectly, to take the initiative to improve their emotions. Here, we introduce a method of treatment, as long as they can, as required, to complete your life will be together again magnificent. (It is worth noting that, if you or your friends now there is no hope for improvement ideas, and even the idea of a suicide, then, it is best to find a psychiatrist take a look at.)
Find one before but have always liked things have been done a long time to develop a practical plan and complete it, and gradually increase the life of meaningful activities. With the increased activity, you will find that: You can do a lot of things to do, you will be interested in the lives of the gradual return.
1, formulating a practical goal.
This goal feasible, that is to say, external conditions and should have their own conditions. The original plan to compare easy to be realized, and we need time, energy relatively small. If this process required too much time and energy, you are not interested in what circumstances, you give up the possibility of more. (If you think of a goal of a happily prepared to take action, you do not have to read down, you do not want to help this article target.) If you live in the inland provinces, the plan into other first - sea: If you travel only in the pool, the beach, do not plan to cross the Qiongzhou Strait. These objectives of the present Dailesuo you run too far.
Now, we assume that your goal is to “learn to swim this summer.” This goal feasible? Feasible, because I have several friends Institute is a summer on the beach, they are not campaign genius and I know that there is a home near swimming pool, opened a swimming courses I have attended these courses for swimming money this summer, I have time.
2, the precise definition of your target.
Only a clear objective, you will be able to judge whether the target. Otherwise, you have the right to own, said: “I have failed.” In order to regain the confidence of life, you need to experience success. Therefore, in the implementation of the act in the course of treatment, you must ensure that you have a successful time and again, so that you believe that you have the ability to carry out the things you want to do. So, please precise definition of your success.
“This summer learn to swim,” “this summer” means what time? June 2000 1 September. Which beaches? Breaststroke. What is the Institute? Will not help any supporting tools travel 100 meters. Well, on September 30th, you can test based on these standards is your goal achieved.
3, the plan of action you will be divided into small enough steps to ensure that your plans will be completed.
For your goal, to develop a detailed plan for every step to achieve the goal of all small enough to identify you definitely will be able to. For example, you may be the target is the first step: determining swimming lesson classes. You may sneer at this target, too easy to think of. But for some people, a lot of depression, Daqijingshen can do this incident very easily. Remember, in determining each objective, it is necessary to ensure that you will be able to complete. Each completed a goal, you win once every success will make your self-confidence grow. If you set the target too, which inevitably fail, time and time again the failure will be a blow to your confidence, perhaps, after several failures, you will be completely lost on this scheme interest and confidence, give up, again to return to the past not to do anything to the state of the.
4, and use their own definition of success.
In other words, the goal should not involve the acts of others. If your goal is to contacts with the people, not to pay attention to the development of such goals: Li together after work and drink coffee. This goal is at fault lies: whether we can achieve this goal depends on the Li whether or not to accept your invitation. You can control their own behavior, but can not control other people’s behavior. Therefore, your violation of this goal on a principle, you can not be sure that this goal will be attained. Based on the principle of ensuring the successful, you can modify objectives: After work, Li invited to a cup of coffee. Invited as long as you open, then you succeed. As for Li reaction is not important. Invite skills is another problem.
5, the goal should not have emotional components.
In this plan, it is important to do so, rather than you do in the course of feelings. You can control their own behavior, but not in direct control of emotions. In a state of depression, it is hard to get from any activities happy feeling. Emotional behaviour will be affected, but the impact is not immediate effect, and we need some time. So, if you must feel happy to be a success, then you are likely to fail. Do not enacted such a goal: “I was pleased to visit two laps”, as long as “I have to travel two laps,” would be sufficient.
Well, the main principles of a lot, you can start your development and implementation of the plan. If you fail in a moment there is no need anxious to try the first time, failure is inevitable. This look back five principles, identify your errors, be corrected. I believe you will overcome depression, a colorful life.